Do You Even Like Women?

Let the hate flow through you…

I’m always late to the party, but I have a massive gripe with something I see online. This discourse that women are all bitches who only want the wealthiest and “best men” you can imagine. I think it really strips away the individualism of a woman and instead paints them all out to be some sort of gold-digging bitch that would never go for some lonely loser NEET.

If you claim you like women, but say they’re:

• Shallow,
• Dumb,
• Manipulative,
• “Hypergamous,”
• Incapable of genuine affection,
• Constantly seeking a superior replacement…

Then do you EVEN like women? I think you’re probably just trying to fulfill some checklist society has pre-ordained for you. Go to school, get a job, get the girl, have kids, die. If you don’t like women, then your life with one would be miserable. Why not spend your time with people you actually enjoy?

I don’t see women as any of those things, by the way. Not that it matters much, but I’m not seeking to win over a female audience or whatever. My only hope is that there is a guy who might read this and think to himself that all of the stuff he has heard IS ALL BULLSHIT.

People are trying to sell you a “course.” Look, obviously there are pieces of shit women out there. There are plenty of shit men out there too. I’m sick of people taking sociological data points and trying to fit them onto all women, all men, all black people, all white people… etc. Sure, maybe as a “group” something fits an overall pattern, but the INDIVIDUAL IS NOT THE GROUP.

People are complicated. Attraction isn’t an exact science. You can’t take a man (or a woman) and have them be attractive to all people on the planet. That’s the issue with taking the individual out of the equation. You miss out on all the people who go against the grain. Honestly? Fuck treating sociology like a horoscope anyways. Do you think people are answering that stuff honestly? They’re saying what their most ideal thing is.

This is anecdotal, but almost all the women in my age group (Gen Z) seem to be doing better than the guys. Every male friend I have has dated “up,” if you want to follow the pseudo-bullshit of the manosphere world. Their girlfriends, fiancées, and wives all make more than they make. That doesn’t mean they’re less than her either. It’s actually meaningless, because human connection isn’t a mathematical formula.

Of course, that goes against some fucking dickhead selling you a course. How to get women, how to attract men, how to be successful… The truth is, if you’re already reading that stuff? You’ve LOST.

And to the women who have dating apps littered with lame-ass clichés about wanting a “real man” who can “spoil” you: you’re a part of the problem too. You’re reinforcing some twisted worldview out there without any shame at all. You SHOULD be shamed, but not by these incel loser freaks. Imagine if I put out to the world that I only want to date a woman who can take care of me and baby me. That is freak behaviour, and if I did that? I honestly think I should be executed.

Granted, that’s the minority of women, and I imagine most other women think they’re pieces of shit and horrible to be around. Haha, yes girly! Fucking slay queen as you fuck some old guy and he’s using you for your young body.

So don’t think I’m sitting here preaching that women are all angels. I just don’t think we should take a small sample size and say all women are like that. If you see a woman and she acts like that? Avoid her. If you see a man and he’s a douchebag? Avoid him. Don’t just default and assume everyone is a douchebag, though.

I genuinely think that a lot of the women-hating communities and men-hating communities could do with some self-reflection. I find it really hard to believe a person who hates the opposite gender and espouses their views aggressively actually… likes the other gender? Society has bombarded us with some sort of lame gender war for a decade-plus now. It’s boring, old, and stupid. It’s time to move on and start loving one another again (I’m a hippy man.)

If you hate, and hate, and hate… eventually you learn to hate yourself. All that hatred has to go somewhere, and it will rot you to the core. The more rotten you become, the more people can sense it. I’m like a big jolly fat guy, and I love all you weirdos. So, you should probably be more like me. And if you’re not like me? Well, I fucking hate you.

All I can say is I’ve been on plenty of dates, and all the women I went on dates with have been nice, kind women who I respected. If it didn’t work out, it didn’t work out. That doesn’t mean they’re evil or bad. It means I wasn’t what they wanted, and sometimes they weren’t what I wanted. It’s not that big of a deal.

So if you’re a young guy and you find you’re not attracting a woman, I don’t know what to say. Dating apps are kind of shit and designed to keep you on them forever. If you have weird hobbies, explore those hobbies and find a person you like.

Connor MacDonald